Basics of Boundaries
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What they are, how to have them, what to think about them, how to feel about them, how to respect them. We get an introduction to all of these ideas this week.
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Boundaries are not as complicated as our egos would have us believe
We’re all here for our own specific purpose – and we need to be surrounded by certain specific energies in order for that purpose to be able to manifest
You can choose to obey someone’s boundary, or you can choose to walk away, you are at choice, you are not a victim.
When someone attempts to break a boundary, it is an opportunity for you to teach now not to and why they shouldn’t
The why is that your relationship will change
Boundaries often assume that our goals are solitary and not team goals
Rather than communicate with our loved ones about what we need and desire, we set up arbitrary boundaries that are less powerful than deep discussion and buy-in
You’re going to be loved no matter what
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Hold better boundaries. Commit to your energetic needs more than you’re committed to codependent relationships with others. Don’t sweat other people’s boundaries. Remember it’s not about you. Remember: you’re going to be loved no matter what.